Lately, it felt like some people really do enjoy making fun of others and embarrassing them. I often wonder if that makes them feel content and fulfilled.
I hope not.
We don’t know what’s going through one’s mind neither their life, that is why we should be more sensitive to other’s feelings and think before we speak. I hope we could all pause for a while and learn to..
stop telling someone how bad his/her acne. How she’s getting too fat or thin. It’s already hard for them. It’s so freakin difficult for them to be confident with their own skin and yet some still have the guts to notice and tell them out loud. People should make everyone feel that they are beautiful regardless of their size and what’s on their skin. There are some things that are beyond of our control. And trust me, they are already doing something about it. Just mind your own. If they approach and ask you some advice, that’s definitely the best time to talk.
stop making people feel bad about something they genuinely love. That is what’s helping them live and survive this harsh world. That’s what they are passionate about. That’s what making them feel happy. Don’t make them feel like they don’t deserve what they have right now.
stop embarrassing people about their mistakes. This is why people tend to be so afraid of making one. We get so blinded that we fail to realize that this is actually the best way for us to learn. We should be open about this. We must understand that this would help us be better with all the things that we do because just then we would know what’s right from wrong.
stop acting like a boss and belittling people. If someone made a mistake, don’t shout at them. Don’t talk to them in front of many people because that’s surely embarrassing. I hope everyone would learn to make others feel welcomed and not out of place. If only we could be more approachable and kind, life would be way less complicated.